When I first arrived in Singapore I had one friend. One. So I put on my shiniest 'you-want-to-be-my-friend-don't-you' face, and took myself off to many an intimidating coffee morning. It's frankly, pretty terrifying walking into a room full of other women who all are (probably/hopefully) feeling equally worried but are putting on incredibly good fronts and look confident and polished and not at all sweaty. Anyway, long-story-short, at one of these  coffee-mornings, I met Emily, who at the time was looking glowy and gorgeous, despite being 7 months pregnant in 95% humidity and 34c temperature, and 6 months later we are firm friends. Oh, and the point of this story is that that glorious bump that Emily was sporting that day, is now 4 month old divine little Sebastian: